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原帖由 Phaeton 于 2005-12-26 14:49 发表
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不想去就说一声 “谢谢,但是我去不了。” 我们这些常去教会的人也是好意。虽说基督徒有传教的义务,但传教既不会得名也不会得利。
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如果我是常联系你的人,我就希望你尽快告诉我,我就不再联系你了。
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I read all the posts. Some people in the church might offended you, but it's a different story. There are people that do have their interpretation of Bible. But there are far more people in the church that do want to help people and they do donate their time and money. At least they should be respected even some people pushed you.: k* ^1 o" z& p
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" v9 T- ]% T, H5 ?1 FOn the other hand, you might need to improve your communication skills with your husband. You have your whole life with him anyway. Just simply tell them the truth and sometimes it's not difficult to say No. Find out the real reason why he is going to the church. But could I ask you not rejecting anything first, but try to understand the reason behind.
' V. ?: l* {+ {- x, |; x5 Y0 }If he insist going to the church, you could do your best to help the family, not complaining. |
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